When we stop to scare, how we will be perceived, we will meet more people, who fit more to our personality. Why? I think that, when we live in our own territory, we build the walls around us to be more protected. We scare to be open, because we could get a hit. We try to prefer the security before a potential negative experience.
Do we really need to be so secured? We behave as people without choice, without option to say “no” when we do not like something. The true is that, that we do not feel comfortable to say “no”.
The “no” hold us back. What can we lose, when we will tell “no”? When we plan to tell “no”, we already do not like something… . If we say “no”, we did the first step to prefer own life before our imagination, how we could be perceived from others.
Heart and Live 